
Every Road Through Life is a Long, Long Road
Filled with Joys and Sorrows Too (Lauder, 1925)
Sometimes plans don’t turn out the way you had hoped! It had been my plan (and my hope) to swim at as many of the lovely, hidden coves as I could, as I made my way (walking) round the South West Coast Path – a sort of swim/walk adventure, as I explained in a previous blog (Oliver, 2025). However, I have now become accustomed to the fact that my plans don’t necessarily follow the path I expected. I have, once again been coming to terms with some uncomfortable lessons about adaptability and accepting that I am not always in control! Never, I’m afraid, my strongest qualities!
Following my swim at Peppercorn Beach (Oliver, 2026) we have walked a further 70 miles and have barely managed a dip!
- The Tide Times
And the tide rises and the tide falls (Longfellow, 1880)
When planning when we will set off and do each section of the path, one of the ‘logistics’ I have successively failed to take into account has been the tide times. This has meant that, on nearly every occasion, the tide has been high at the start of our walks (when I have been reluctant to delay our start by going in for a swim) and low when we finish (and are longing to cool off and stretch out in the water). This has resulted in many of the coves and beaches on my ‘must do’ list being disappointingly unswimmable and inevitably being added to a new ‘must revisit another time’ list.




2. Stormy Weather
Don’t know why there’s no sun in the sky
Keeps raining all the time
Stormy Weather. (Ethel Waters, 1933)
On the day that we walked from Clovelly to Hartland Quay, one of the most challenging and steep sections of the coast path at the best of times, the weather turned very stormy. We spent much of the day bent over, attempting to stay upright in 50 miles per hour winds and with the rain obscuring any view of any coves we might have stopped at for a dip. Hartland Quay had been one of my recommended swim spots (I have seen photos of it during the recent heat wave, looking very much like the Mediterranean), so I was more than disappointed that it was so wild and unwelcoming when we were there. That section of the coast path taught me a lot about resilience and determination. It was exhausting – and at times a bit frightening. There was no where to ‘bail out’, we had to keep going, but we did seriously consider not continuing the following day. However, we survived and eventually made it, wet and exhausted, to the Hartland Quay Hotel, where we received a very warm welcome, a good meal and a comfortable bed, and the friendly camaraderie of fellow walkers who were also sheltering for the night.
And I’m still standing (Elton John, 1983)





The weather wasn’t a lot better the next day, but we all agreed it would be disappointing to not continue on, as planned, and so on we walked to Morwenstow. We knew we had survived the previous day of steep hills and brutal weather. We could do this! The winds, that day, were still over 40 mph, but it was sunny and clear and we could at least see the coast – and the stormy seas. As we crossed the border into Cornwall we felt very proud of ourselves for our strength and determination. Of course, there was still to be no swimming, and the hoped for welcome of a swim at Welcombe Mouth was not forthcoming.
As we journey on, how your heart may yearn
For the things most dear to you …
But onward we must go (Lauder, 1925)
3. Coastal erosion
We have encountered many ‘diversions’ on the South West Coast Path, where the original route has been eroded by the sea and the weather and is now no longer safe to walk on. It is a magnificent coast with breathtaking views that make me feel very small and insignificant as a human being and I wonder how many generations in the future will be able to experience and enjoy it, in the same way. Bossiney Haven is a secluded bay below the steep cliffs between Boscastle and Tintagel. I had read a lot about it and how wonderful it was for swimming at both high and low tides. I planned to swim there. Imagine my disappointment, when we reached the turning, to find the path closed due to ‘unstable cliffs and falling rocks’.



4. Oil Spill
Hot and hungry, and disappointed with the inability to swim at Bossiney, we made our way onward to Trebarwith Strand, where we were certain we would be able to swim. But again no! As we arrived on the quay side we were faced with a large sign informing us that there had been an oil spillage (from a domestic oil tank) that had leaked into the sea. So no swimming there either!


You can’t always get what you want
But if you try sometimes,
You’ll find you get what you need (Rolling Stones, 1969)
Learning to accept you are not necessarily in control of your own path is an uncomfortable lesson to learn – and is one that I am not quite sure that I have mastered yet! Accepting that some things are not meant to be and that there are perfectly acceptable and enjoyable alternatives ahead is one of life’s lessons that undertaking this coast path adventure is teaching me. I am having to learn to weather the storms, the ups and the downs along the way and the disappointments that get thrown in your path. And despite the disappointments there are also joys and unexpected treats ahead, that lift the spirit.
Tho’ the way be long, let your heart be strong
If you’re tired and weary, still journey on
Keep right on to the end of the road. (Lauder, 1925)
* Joyous Dip 1: Despite all the ‘non-swims’ listed above, I have managed to get into the water on almost every day of our walking. The tide may have been out at Clovelly, but that evening I climbed over the rocky shore to reach the sea and had a wonderfully cold swim along the beach. And when I got out my daughter told me that I had been sharing the sea with a dolphin!
Clovelly, March 2026
* Joyous Dip 2: The tide may have been out at Crooklets Beach, but we were welcomed, warmly, by Friends of Bude Sea Pool and I had a wonderful, warm swim there, in the historic sea pool. Bude Sea Pool is built into the rocks at Summerleaze Beach and is topped up with fresh sea water at high tide every day. Created in 1930, the Sea Pool has offered a safe sea swimming environment for nearly 100 years. Today it is maintained by volunteers and depends on donations and grants. Bude has a long history of supporting sea bathing. There is a bridge in the town – Nanny Moore’s Bridge’ – dedicated to Nanny Moore, a ‘sea dipper’ who helped the genteel ladies of the mid-19th Century to safely bathe at Crooklets Beach. I am grateful to those volunteers, in Bude, who continue this tradition at the Sea Pool.

Bude Sea Poole, May 2026
* Joyous Dip 3: The waves may have been high, at Crackington Haven, but I went in anyway, and enjoyed a joyful and refreshing jump in the surf at the end of a long hard day of walking. So don’t let disappointment defeat you. You might not always get what you want (as those famous Bards of our time once said), but if you keep your heart, mind and eyes open, you might find what you need, in unexpected places.

Crackington Haven, May 2026
Just like moons and suns, with certainty of tides
Just like hopes springing high
Still I rise. (Angelou, 1978)
Photo Credits: Beth Oliver
References
Angelou, M. (1978) And Still I Rise: A Book of Poems, Random House
Jagger, M. & Richards, K. (1969) You Can’t Always Get What You Want, from the album Let It Bleed, Decca
John, E. (1983) I’m Still Standing, from the album, Too Low For Zero, Rocket Records
Lauder, H. (1925) Keep Right On To The End Of The Road, HMV
Longfellow, H.W. (1880) The Tide Rises, The Tide Falls, in Ultimate Thule, Houghton Miffin & co
Oliver, B. (2025) The Long and Winding Road, justkeepswimmingbillie.wordpress.com
Oliver, B. (2026) To Make You Feel My Love, justkeepswimmingbillie.wordpress.com
Warwick, D. (1964) Walk On By, Scepter Records
Waters, E. (1933) Stormy Weather (Keeps Rainin’ All The Time), Brunswick Records
Friends of Bude Sea Pool (FoBSP) is a registered charity and receives no regular Town, Council or central government funding. They therefore rely on the generosity of those who visit and use the historic Sea Pool.



































